Dear America,
This Thursday, I got the most exciting news of my entire mission so far. Elder Antwi called me in the evening and told me. At least some abbreviated portion of this story should make its way into the ward newsletter if at all possible. I'll take this opportunity for a flashback:
When I was in Kronum with Elder Antwi, we met up with an investigator named Rebecca. She was a fourteen-year-old girl that we contacted on the street near the chapel. We invited her to come to church and she accepted. It was just one of those "you'd better take me seriously" days for Elder Antwi and I, so we made her look us in the eye and promise that she would come to church. She said she would. One day we saw her entering a house just a few doors down from the chapel. Sunday morning at 8:30, we were waiting for her just outside her house. She was so shocked to see us there. We waited for her to start getting ready, at which point we went to the chapel for sacrament meeting. About halfway through the meeting we noticed that she hadn't shown up. So we left the meeting and stood at her door until she got dressed and followed us to church. We made sure that she stayed the entire time. She told us later that that first time she came to church really affected her. She felt the Spirit very strongly and knew that there was something different about our church. We gave her a Lesson 1 pamphlet to read over as she was leaving the chapel.
Our next meeting happened to be while Elder Antwi was gone on exchange. I was with Elder Lawson. At this point, we were still convinced that she wasn't at all serious about learning the gospel. But when we asked her if she had read the pamphlet we gave her, she was able to give as a very detailed point-by-point summary of the Restoration that left us astonished. She had even answered all of the sample questions at the back. It was amazing. Nobody on my mission, before or since, has ever done that. We taught her all five of the missionary lessons within the first two weeks. She progressed incredibly quickly. We had her all prepped for her baptism. She was even interviewed for baptism, but her hopes were dashed as she learned about the Church's policy concerning minors. In order to be baptized at such a young age, an investigator needs to either (1) have a family member in the church, or (2) attend church meetings for at least six months. We tried to teach her family so that we could baptize her more quickly, but her family wasn't at all in a situation to accept the teachings. Her mother was disabled by a stroke some time ago, her father was a taxi driver who drank and smoked, her older sister had moved away and was living the party life, her younger sister was middle-school age with a free spirit, and she was left to try to hold her family together while she was still in JHS. She was devastated when she learned that she would have to wait for six months to be baptized. We did everything we possibly could to strengthen her, but she started dropping rapidly. We visited her constantly for four months, trying everything in our power to keep her firm in the gospel until she could be baptized. But she was weakening. She stopped attending church and was able to meet with us less and less. It hurt us to watch he falling. Only a little while before, she was the perfect investigator. We tried so much to help her, but eventually felt that we needed to drop her from our teaching pool. It was hard. We had put so much effort into her growth. We were able to see her on the day before we left Kronum, and she was asking some disappointing questions about basic things we had been teaching. That saddened us. She had fallen so far. We left with very, very little hope for her ever progressing. She had made her choice and used her agency as we all can. She had just made the wrong decision, unfortunately.
Fast forward. She's being interveiwed for her baptism. Here's what happened: her brother -- WHO WE DIDN'T EVEN KNOW EXISTED -- who has been missing for several years, came back. Surprise. Well apparently in his absence he met the missionaries and accepted the invitation to learn the gospel. He was baptized and made the decision to serve a mission. HE'S A RETURN MISSIONARY. And he's back from the dead. Her desire and the joy of the gospel have been re-ignited within her -- and now that she has a family member in the church, she can be baptized. And even better, he'll be a strength to her for the rest of her life.
Sometimes small miracles happen. And sometimes huge, earthshaking miracles happen. Like your brother coming back from the dead as a return missionary. I'm just so happy that everything is working out for her. And I'm grateful that I could be part of the preparation. No effort is wasted. Elder Antwi and I thought that we had spent four months focusing on a hopeless cause, but we couldn't have been further from the truth. We were paving the way for miracles to happen.
This week was Elder Khumalo's birthday, the biggest branch activity that I've ever seen, and a trip to Kintampo Falls as a zone. We sustained a functional Relief Society presidency on Sunday, which was a big step in the right direction. Life's pretty good.
Love,
Elder Nelson